| If I were to organize a shower party for a friend who | | | | memories - and the element of surprise would bring so |
| is about to get married, I would consider an | | | | much thrill. At night, the activity would be the usual |
| entire-day-out or even overnight with the people | | | | gift-giving but it would be a pajama-party-type where |
| closest to her or him for that matter. Anyway, it's the | | | | we will all feel relaxed and comfortable. It is a good |
| last time you get to really have much of her time | | | | feeling also to spend the night together with |
| before getting into a busy and complicated life after | | | | all-girl-friends with all the drinking, smoking and food |
| marriage. | | | | tripping, anyway, it is her last time to enjoy with us to |
| We would practically spend the rest of the day | | | | the fullest because the next time that she will be with |
| outside doing our favorite paintball game. Since it is the | | | | us will be with her husband and maybe her child whom |
| safest activity we could enjoy before she gets to the | | | | we can take to a paintball game and maybe try to |
| altar, it is also an activity that will help build her | | | | teach them the same values and characters that was |
| character as a person and as a wife. It would be | | | | learned by my friend during her stint as a paintball |
| refreshing for her also after the long difficult process | | | | player. Well of course it would always be a good idea |
| of preparation, to get dirty and wild in the paintball field | | | | to throw a shower party that the bride to be will enjoy |
| confines besides the game of paintball can even train | | | | and not just going into a club and getting wild where |
| her on how to become a great wife by teaching her | | | | things might go wrong and all of you will just regret it |
| the value of patience, perseverance and determination. | | | | the next day, the bride-to-be may not make it to her |
| Paintball is a competitive sport that requires a lot of | | | | own wedding day. It is better to engage yourselves |
| patience, honesty and determination characters that | | | | into an activity that can elucidate one's character |
| she may learn and may apply in her married life. We | | | | rather than an activity that will degrade it. |
| would have a fun, muddy day paintballing. She would | | | | Who would imagine that surprise shower parties like |
| love it more than the usual thing with sensual / macho | | | | this will be injected with a paintball activity? It would |
| dancers which is quite humiliating, sometimes, especially | | | | come really unimaginable to the bride-to-be. It is |
| those not open to it. | | | | something I could give her to show my gratitude for |
| Paintballing should make it almost complete, not the | | | | the beautiful friendship we shared, and now that she is |
| usual girly thing but she would love it as much | | | | about to marry, this is also an assurance that our |
| especially that it would bring back some childhood | | | | friendship will continue to blossom. |