| First off, 90% of all break-ups can be resolved! So no | | | | have to say. If you get a phone call from Him/her |
| need to worry! | | | | make sure you keep the call short and sweet but be |
| Okay, I'm going to start with a few things NOT to do in | | | | nice! |
| the process of how to get your ex back. | | | | Now for the DO'S |
| *1. Constantly contacting your Ex is your number one | | | | *1 Number one DO is Agree with the break, even if |
| DON'T. This means no calling, texting or visiting | | | | you don't, you need to let them go and have a chance |
| because if he/she is seeing and hearing from you all | | | | to miss you before you can have them back. Let your |
| the time they aren't going to get a chance to miss you | | | | ex know that you are fine with the break-up and think |
| and this is the effect you want, your ex missing you. | | | | it is the best for both of you. |
| *2. Never show your negative emotions to your Ex, | | | | *2 Everyone wants what they can't have so make |
| make sure he/she thinks your fine and getting on great | | | | yourself "Unavailable" for your ex, This makes he/she |
| with your life, this will make you see strong and | | | | think what you could be doing that is more important |
| successful. always make sure you look great when | | | | than them, or if your out with someone else, so when |
| leaving home as well just in case you bump into him | | | | or if they do get some of your time it will be well |
| her. | | | | appreciated. |
| *3 So you know not to contact first but what if your | | | | *3 Do Get out with your friends and try new things, |
| ex contacts you? DON'T be in a rush to reply, if you | | | | whether its going paint balling or trying out a new |
| receive a text from him/her read the text then leave it | | | | restaurant in town this will give you exciting things to |
| about 20 minutes before you send a reply, NO LESS! | | | | talk about when you and your ex do get back |
| this builds up anticipation for your ex to see what you | | | | together. |